“People are always doing their best”

People are always doing their best

Through years of working with people from all sorts of backgrounds and even more years working on my own “stuff” I have (at times reluctantly) grown to believe  we are all doing our best, in any given moment. Which means that others are also always doing their best.

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Relationship Boundaries

Relationship Boundaries

Relationship boundaries : In a group work setting, we usually develop a set of boundaries called a group agreement. When we have these, it allows everyone in the group to feel held and hold each other in a way that creates safety.

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Open or closed relationships?

Closed relationships are the mainstream style of relationship that we hear about. They are a very traditional way to love here in Ireland. However open relationships are also something experienced by many these days, even though they may not fit the status quo.

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Sexual Entitlement in Relationships

Sexual Entitlement in Relationships

Often when we become sexually intimate with someone we transfer the responsibility of our sexual satisfaction to the other. This is the basis to sexual entitlement. I am not sure if it comes from the way different society’s see relationships and sex. Perhaps its that most of us unconsciously tend to make other people responsible for our experiences within relationships such as our happiness or safety or self worth.

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The Power Of Self Compassion

Self compassion

Self compassion comes hardest to us when we need it most. When we have done something we are ashamed of, or fallen short off the mark we feel we need to meet, or have gone against are own values or aren’t who we thought we “should” be.

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Case Study: Stress & Overwhelm

Case Study: Married, Business Owner, 30’s – Attended Workshop
“I was very stressed and overwhelmed with emotions that I felt I could no longer handle on my own, and needed someone to guide me in the right direction.

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